又來了

Motherhood…sigh! So full of ups and downs and many people trying to tell you what to do. I just want to say that I will probably write more about being a mother now, so I understand if you don’t find it appealing. Sorry, but that is what I am going thru now.

I was just thinking because it’s already been 5 months since baby came to stay in our lives forever and it has been difficult to keep a clear mind. Considering that I have not really stopped working at all since then, and sometimes there is a lot of pressure from everyone, trying to be a good and efficient wife, mother, worker, and host… that sometimes becomes impossible! How do you do it? I am planning to finally go back to the gym and I don’t know what I am going to do but definitely need to spend time at the gym, just because I like it, nothing else. All these things kept adding to my to-do list, and if I look at it rn is overwhelming.

The funny thing is that fathers cannot see, feel or think the same way as mothers…. and that drives me crazy! That is why, every mom needs a friend mom that actually talks about the struggles of being a mom.
I have become friends with new moms and already moms, and it’s fun that we can all share the same struggles and complain about the same things without feeling judged. (Well, maybe we judge each other, but we also understand, why we do what we do)

What I have learned so far, is that Mama knows and she better speak out, because your baby can’t.